About Adding

So right as stated in the info most of this journal is pretty private and I just don't want everyone to read about those stuff. Yep, there're a lot of weird people out there.^^
If you want me to add you, guess I can at least expect you to leave a little note here, telling me who you are, how you've found this... mainly something that gives me an idea who's maybe reading my stuff.
I don't have a problem with someone adding me just to expire their f-list & without leaving a comment here, but don't expect me to add you back then.
There're some things I won't tolerate though, just like intolerance, backstabbing, sexism, homophobia & racism (to name the most important things). And yes, I think it's sad, that we're still living in a world, where someone has to mention something like that.

Alright, think you now know the deal.

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feeling: accomplished listening to: Pink :: Just Like A Pill tags: friends-lock

Okay, seen the answer to this at ssjumi 's journal and... well, since I don't have something better to do right now and am still a bit tired I thought it's an interesting topic for once.

Okay, uhm... kind off? Depends?

Well further explanation: Thinking of the situation in which something like the first question happens, yeah... I at least tend to say something to it, but I still wouldn't call it confronting. It's not like if someone makes such a remark I go like You're a homophobe/racist. But well, I hardly do have any friends who tend to really make such comments. It's more collegues or co-workers where something like that can happen and well... I mean, if a guy (turkish background) comes up at work and telling that he met a gay man yesterday and was the whole time scared that this guy wanted to grab his ass... uhm, I mainly find it funny.
So my reaction to that went something like (cause he didn't stop telling this story for hours *lol*) 'Well, but do y o u know that some say if you're so refusive about it, it only shows you've got something to hide there?'
And yes, his shocked face amused me even more.
And he shut up after that.

But that certainly isn't something I'd call confronting as well as I wouldn't call his remark there homophobic, at least not in the usual sense. It only proved my theory why some men have such a huge problem with the whole gay thing, but that's another story. *lol*

And then... and somehow I feel the need to point that out: I tend to believe that it although always is a cultural/generation question. And yes, that might just be because of my interest for history (the subject I actually like studying the most) and therefor I know that already a lot has changed during the centuries. Which - yeah - I consider a great thing. But I although know that it actually takes a lot of time to change things that are in peoples heads for generations and no, I don't think accusing them to be a racist/homophobe is the right way to change those things.

Yeah, there might be some statements I surely wouldn't agree on, and yes, I try to think of myself as a person who tries to speak up her mind.
A bit out of topic situation, but this reminded me of it somehow: Me and some friend's ate at university once and there was this guy nearly everyone started to make jokes on at some point (not because of nationality or something, only because of the way he looked) and at some point I couldn't take it any longer. And I told them to stop, think I went something like, that it isn't funny to make such kind of jokes... but well, this might be related to my history of being bullied at school and no, most of my friends didn't even understand why it affected me.
But well, this doesn't mean that I don't talk about other's or make jokes about some guests at work, but that certainly isn't related to their looks but more... well stupidity. And since I know most consider me stupid/the lowest form of existence to work there, I just feel like I have the right, to react to that.
Anyway I guess that little scene at university proved for me that I somehow would say something to things I don't agree on. Mainly because I think that saying nothing wouldn't change anything.

But right, I wouldn't go so far and call myself totally tolerant. I just... well, don't like to generalize things/people/whatever. I try to see everyone as individual as possible and listen to their opinions. And if I'd happen to meet someone who in my eyes actually would be a homophobe/racist... well, I heard from several people by now that it's impossible to change such a person's mind, so well... maybe I'd try, maybe not. Guess that would depend on the way the discussion before that remark would have worked. If I'd get the feeling that someone is... well, let's call it close-minded and unable to even listen to other opinions than his own... I guess I wouldn't. Try it I mean. And yes, I'd think my time would be wasted there.

But well, I'm certainly not all PC and take every statement someone says about other nationalities or homosexuals as racist/homophobic.

So right and concernig the last question... hmm, guess my views above wouldn't change there. And with this 'speaking up' thing... well, I'd more say I'd be willing to help if someone asks for it, but I certainly wouldn't say something when the other person doesn't care or seems to feel uncommfortable about it.

Okay, that's mainly my answer to this, and I don't do that to show everyone how tolerant I am or something... I certainly aren't more than everyone I consider to have some intelligence left is as well. I say some really stupid things every once in a while as well, but - and that's maybe the difference - I'm able to change my mind when someone has some good arguments.
And no, I don't consider myself a racist or homophobe, although I mostly avoid the topic racism anyway, cause:
1. I actually do belive in things like 'we're all human'; equality; that - no matter how different we'd be - we're all living on the same planet and have to get along somehow
2. I'm german *sigh* and therfor (together with my history interest) know pretty good what racism in it's worst form can lead to. And no, I don't want to say here that there're no racists in Germany today, I just tend to belive that most people around here are more sensitized about this subject... at least I hope so.

And about the homophobe thing... well, actually point one above for me really includes everyone (no matter of nationality/race/gender/religion or sexual orientation). I try to judge people by their actions or opinions and not by things like looks or whom they love/sleep with.
And yes, I think that's not super tolerant, it's just... well, normal? Common sense? *shrug*

Well, I certainly could expand more on this, especially concerning this group dynamic thing ssjumi mentioned in her answer, but well, think it really is enough for now.

Thanks. (:

feeling: excited tags: confront, homophobic, racist, writer's block

So right, first thing to announce: there won't be any german RPG-related stories in here any longer, cause ssjumi and I decided to create a community for those from now on:

♥ en_progress ♥

Feel free to watch and read (german only, remember) and comment if you like. :)

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Then today before I had to go to work I stumbled over something in some celebrity news on TV. Like how some are now leaving Twitter while others damn/blame it and again some others expose their private life a bit too much. And once again this started some thoughts which I need to get out, before I'm able to even think about writing something. *lol*
Especially since there're really some things I don't understand...

( So what? )

Right.
That's all.
Thanks (:

feeling: amused listening to: Fort Minor :: Believe Me tags: community, en progress, thoughts, twitter

[x] german
[x] Bennoda
[x] Romance
[x] don't own -> don't sue/nothing's happend => FIKTION! Nichts und niemand gehört mir.

*lol* Ja, und weiter geht's, wobei... njargh, ich kann meine Klappe nicht halten, nun ja, nen Teil hiervon war als Epilog geplannt und ich hab noch weniger Ahnung davon, wie's in Psychiatrien so zugeht, als ssjumi ... mein Wissen beschränkt sich da dann doch eher auf das, was ich aus Büchern und Filmen weiß... whatever, enjoy (:

Want more?

Friend Of A Friend by ssjumi - Februar 2008
Saturation by ssjumi - April 2000
White Flag by moi - April 2006
Knives Out by ssjumi - November 1993

( With You )

(:

feeling: creative listening to: Placebo :: The Never-Ending Why tags: en progress, fanfiktion, german, rpg, story

Alright, following ssjumi here and therfor this entry will be in german (like most likely everything in the future that is titled with En Progress... sorry.

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So... ich hab hier nicht viel drüber gesprochen, weil ich zu der Zeit online meist anderweitig unterwegs war. Ansonsten hätte ich wahrscheinlich eh nur von dem LP/Bennoda-RPG geschwärmt, dass ich und ssjumi geplayt haben und das zudem noch mein erstes RPG ever war und dessen Suchtfaktor mich schon daher sehr überrascht hat.

Nun gut, schon während des Playns hatten wir überlegt ne OS-Sammlung auf FanFiktion.de zu starten, allerdings... nun ja, während des Playns sind wir nicht wirklich viel zum Schreiben gekommen. Allerdings war das RPG eben auch so genial, dass es uns immer noch verfolgt *lol*. Und nachdem ssjumi jetzt die Idee hatte, einfach ihr Livejournal zu nutzen, um immer mal wieder nen paar kurze Episoden, die im wesentlichen in besagtem RPG Universum spielen hochzuladen... nun ja, folge ich diesem Trend, allein schon, weil ich es auch vermisse, und da durchaus noch ne Menge rauszuholen ist.^^

Daher ist das ganze eben auch eher zu unserem Vergnügen gedacht, zumal besagte Episoden wohl durchaus einige Fragen offenlassen werden, da immer noch geplannt ist, das vollständige RPG irgendwann auf Umis Homepage hochzuladen. (:

Mehr:
Friend Of A Friend by ssjumi - Februar 2008
Saturation by ssjumi - April 2000

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Disclaimer: Personen gehören ausnahmslos sich selbst (bis auf Jack^^, der allerdings bei mir erst später vorkommen wird... der gehört ssjumi und mir und wir teilen uns die Rechte an ihm gerecht auf... kein Platz für noch jemand anderen^^), mehr oder weniger Warner und nichts des hier veröffentlchten erhebt Anspruch auf Wahrheitsgehalt. Und nein, ich verdiene auch kein Geld damit *lol*^^

Anmerkung: Diese Episode ist dann doch während des Playns entstanden und sollte im Wesentlichen Anna's Position zu der ganzen Sache, die sich da zwischen den zwei Hauptpersonen abgespielt hat, erläutern. Und ist außerdem wirklich nur recht kurz.
Rating: P-12 [Slash implied]

( White Flag )

More to come soon... hoffentlich (:
*das hier im Grunde auch gegen ne momentane Schreibblockade zu nutzen versucht*
Thanks (:

feeling: excited listening to: Placebo :: Kitty Litter tags: en progress, fanfiktion, german, rpg, story

So first off I've decided to switch to a Plus Account, just because I wanted to have the opportunity to upload 15 icons instead of six... *lol* I really doubt I'll use some of the other new things there O.o

Then I discovered by accident that this whole journal still looks pretty fucked up when being viewed with Internet Explorer... >.<
But know what?
I still love the layout like I see it in Firefox pretty much and so I don't care. Either switch to Firefox when it annoys you or deal with it. Fullstop. XP

Uhm yeah, then something else I wasn't even this sure if I want to give my opinion on it or not, cause (like ssjumi stated very correctly in her viewing of this "It's not our business. Or, well... at least it shouldn't be our business.", but then... well, like stated in said entry as well the fact that all of this happens in public actually seems to make it a bit of our business, no matter if we want or not.

So yeah, you can find the full entry here and everything else from me will go

( behind this cut now )

Yep, all I have to say on that... and yeah, I'm aware that my last statement took away some of the seriousness, but come on people... some fan reactions were rather ridiculous (at least some of which I heard)... leave them alone and let them be happy or whatever.^^
Thanks (:

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Edit: One last thing about this layout: so yeah, today at my sister's I tried Google Chrome and it looked pretty decent there too, in fact the same like it looks with Firefox. Ha! That makes 2 against 1. XP

feeling: amused listening to: Placebo :: Bigmouth Strikes Again [Smith Cover] tags: chester, layout, lp, twitter

-btw. I still haven't seen that whole movie but... uhm well *lol*-

( More personal favs behind the cut )

(:

feeling: exhausted listening to: Dead By Sunrise :: Too Late tags: 5 seconds, fun, movies, random, youtube

So right, this fanfiction Meme I did some days ago and which you can find here actually made me think, you know. Or more precisely it made me realize that I do this kind of stuff for about nine years now, which is somehow quiete a while I think and therefor I once more started to think about the main reason for me doing something like that.

So right, I've always written my own stories (more or less inspired by movies/books/whatever you want) and I always knew that none of those stories were good enough to try and get them published or something. I mean, seriously even when I read them now I can see how much my style was influenced by my actualy favourite author/book/and so on.
So discovering fanfiction (and in a way RPS more than anything else) made me think that it might help me to work on getting my own style. Try out different ideas without having to think about the characters (which in a way always was the hardest thing for me) too much.
Oh right, and then there's the love for writing, although personally today I think that the term 'love' doesn't really describe it. I mean, I love a lot of things, but never felt the need to try out those stuff on my own. I love art... okay, I tried to paint, but realized pretty fast that I'm not really good at it, I once was obsessed with soccer and then the formula one, but never really thought of getting in some car and do races or something like that. And I love music, but well, apart from some 'fun' tries I haven't really felt the need to learn playing an instrument.
So, what I'm trying to say is that I deeply believe that there's something more to it. It's more like a need (which can be good or bad at times). I need to write, I need to let out those stories/ideas that build themselves up in my head. And I still mean when I say that I'd always write no matter if I ever publish a book or not, cause for me that's not the main point about it all.

But right, at one point I wanted to know what people (who I don't know and who don't belong to my family) think about my stuff. And yes, now I'm no longer talking about my reason to write, but about my reason to put some of my stuff online.
And just to say this again: those are two complete different things!

And yes, that's the main reason, why it pisses me off, when people not only don't leave any reviews (which is in fact their decision not mine), although I get a bit, well c o n f u s e d if someone says in their profile some stuff like "Schwarzlesen (=reading w/o giving reviews) sucks" but then has several stories in their favourites for which he/she never wrote one review. *lmao* Honestly people at least stop this pretentious shit then.
But well, to be honest here, I haven't reviewed every story I've read as well. Mainly because it takes a lot of time and especially when I started reading fanfiction I sometimes wasn't this sure how to do it and it always felt wrong to me to just say the standart 'yeah, great, go on soon' stuff. But yes, I've learned how to do that better by now, and actually try to review everything I read, because I deep down believe that the author wants to hear it. Why else upload your story somewhere, huh?

Alright, so here's the point: I'm also one of those person's who don't like to beg for reviews. I even stopped reading certain stories as soon as the author came up with this 'if I don't get more reviews I'll stop writing this', cause no matter how you see it, no one should write only to get feedback. And yes, I agree with most there who say that writing should be about your fun with the story. I even think that you can kind of feel it when an author losses his interest in his story, and therefor it shouldn't be important how many reviews you get, but more if you still l o v e your story/the idea/plot/aso.
But well, it's also true that every author who loves to write could as well only sit at home and write for himself. I guess that's the point all those readers should start thinking about, like said before, there are different reasons for writing and for putting things online where everyone can read them without having to do something for it, or pay for it (like it is with books, just in case someone thinks now that an author who publishes his stuff in a book gets no feedback as well). Cause right, he most likely doesn't but he get's PAID for it and doesn't do it in his freetime... yes, out of fun, a disire, love... whatever it is, but I think everyone should start seeing that it's no implicitness that writers put there stuff online for free.
They do that, because they want to hear what people think about it.
They do that, because they maybe hope for some constructive critisism that might show them how to do it better.

Well, I guess even the last reason does only count for some, but right, there're still those authors who just prefer to read something (most likely from their best friend) like how great/good/amazing their stuff is and i f they get some critic (by someone who does this kind of stuff much longer than they do) they get pissed or offended.
Honestly I'm even a bit surprised about the fact that in those five years in which I put my stuff online there's never been one 'real critic' *lol*... I mean, sure people told me they found my things confusing or something like that, but since none till now was able to tell me w h a t exactly should be confusing there I have no idea how to change it.
And right, like almost everyone I have a hard time with dealing with critic as well. I mean after all I love my stuff, and even when someone points out some typos or other minor mistakes it takes a while for me to swallow my pride down.
But - and that's maybe the main point - I don't bite.
And I really believe that I've dealt with every form of critic pretty fair and good by now (talking about those that were constructive), I even tried to explain certain character motivations once (see? I always try to make it clear for everyone)^^.
But well, I guess another thing that has gotten harder is to actually find something I'm really interested in reading. And right, guess mainly those who write because of a love for reviews/praise and not because they just feel the need to do so, have destroyed it for me.
Cause - and that's something which get's more and more important lately - I do have a life. I study (more or less *lol*), I work in a part-time job, I help out my sister with her new established business, I write myself, and I love to meet some friends every once in a while. So, what I'm trying to say is that when I actually have the time to read something, I lately prefer to read stuff by my favourite author's where I know that I'll get some good stuff, and where the 30-45 minutes I mostly need for my reviews are spent well.

Alright, think that was all for today, although like always it somehow feels like I forgot something.
Enjoy your day. (:

feeling: thoughtful listening to: Gorrilaz :: Feel Good Inc. tags: fanfiction, life, reviews, thoughts, writing

*lol*
Just another thing stolen from ssjumi and no, I'm not desperately trying to avoid writing, cuz it might frustrate me again... well, whatever, let's see where this leads^^:

4 pretty pictures (randomly picked from my DA favourites... uhm, well, not this randomnly maybe^^):


And All That Could Have Been by ~1weak on deviantART

SlipKnoT by ~Sakasagami on deviantART

torn apart by ~SSjUmi on deviantART

joker by *cuson on deviantART

3 songs I always liked but somehow happened to forget:







2 songs where I'm surprised to like them:
+ Avril Lavigne :: Nobody's Home
+ Rihanna :: Disturbia

1 cheering smiley:
(\(^o^)/)
---> stole that as well from ssjumi cause I really don't know how to do that better O.O

feeling: lazy listening to: Guns 'n' Roses :: You Could Be Mine tags: meme, pictures, random, vids

Okay, actually I wanted to write tonight *lol* but then I've got tagged by ssjumi and so instead of writing I filled out this meme... soooo... uhm, enjoy^^.
Btw. most pictures I've found online or have them on my PC for too long now (means: I don't really remember where I've found them, so I don't take credit for them).

( Fanfiction Meme OR everything you maybe always wanted to know about this obsession of mine - with pics )

Well... that was actually pretty tough O.O

feeling: exhausted listening to: Air :: Playground Love tags: fanfiction, meme

Okay, I just follow everyone else and give you here my very first impression of the Dead By Sunrise record Out Of Ashes.
Although - and yes, I feel obliged to state this - I only have listened to the whole record for about two times now & searched for most of the lyrics online, plus I deep down believe that a good record somehow needs to grow on you, for some of my absolute favourite ones I needed about half a year to truely appreciate them and therfor like/love them.
So right, it's nothing than a first impression here and every critic might change after some while again & what I like now might turn out as boring in a couple of months. *lol*

[x] Fire: Well... it somehow sounds weird to me. Dunno how to put it better, but somehow the melody doesn't really fit the lyrics and the tempo change in the middle is a bit... well, weird as well. But the postive thing is that the Chorus is somehow nice, a bit like a classical rock tune in a way^^

[x] Crawl Back In: Well, first one I really like... maybe because it already starts like a true rock song and I like this start and looking at the lyrics I think it's very inspiring (: ... but yeah, in fact I guess it's this rock song thing that really got me there. I mean I still smile dumbly when hearing the start of Guns 'n' Roses 'Sweet Child Of Mine' and yes, it's mostly about the start of those songs XD^^

[x] Too Late: Initial Favourite... I really love this. It has a nice flow in it and the lyrics seem to be pretty cool & beautiful as well. And the melody really is beautiful and catching in a way. *loves it*

[x] Inside Of Me: Well, apart from this What the hell is wrong with me line (LP's Given Up, duh? O.o) I find the whole song a bit confusing and really, really don't know what to think of it. Right now I don't like the way with this different sounding voices and find it rather irritating... but well, like stated above, some things need to grow on me and I remember when I heard Slipknots 'Left Behind' the first time it gave me a headache and made me feel a bit nauseated... so yeah... maybe this turns out to be such a song, who knows.^^

[x] Let Down: Yes, the accoustic version was better and yes, I don't like the start of this version this much. Dunno, seems to be a bit faster than the accoustic version as well, which I personally think is a loss. When I first heard it I really liked named version and thought the song was really touching, but now... dunno. Maybe my personal first disappointment. O.O

[x] Give Me Your Name: Hmm... maybe Twitter destroyed it for me *lol*... honestly I can't stop thinking of those tweets of the Bennington Clan when listening to it and yes, this song is as cheesy as expected. Well thinking of that it would have needed more than this to convince me to like it, guess it's really my least favourite on this record, especially since the melody isn't this great either. ):
And right, think it will get my usual skipping song... but well, most records I own do have such a song (some few exceptions of course XD)

[x] My Suffering: The beginning made me instantly think of the way some Muse songs start. XDDDD And then it goes on like a real good rock song again and I guess it really is what is needed after the song before, so yeah... (:
And I totally adore this line 'My happy ending only exists in my dreams!'... and this song is so RPG-Bennoda that it really hurts... awww, perfect (:
Think after 'Too Late' I have another favourite XD

[x] Condemned: Well... I like it... really, I mean Chester's more rough voice on this and the lyrics seem to be pretty nice as well. Can't say much more to this one now though, guess it's once again a song I need to hear more often to fully decide about. But it leaves a good impression. XD

[x] Into You: Seems to be really nice as well and as far as I can understand the lyrics right now it might be some nice inspiration as well. And with it's more calm flow of the melody I think it's placed really good after 'Condemned'... future will tell more I guess.

[x] End Of The World: Okay, this one really is different from the rest and after hearing/reading about it having some sort of poltical/society critic topic I was really looking forward to hearing it but... well, hard to explain in a way maybe I'm just not this sure what to think of it, it's just... well, where 'Hands Held High' & even 'Kenji' (which for me falls in this category as well) really touched me in a way this one just... dunno. The melody is weird in a way and, okay, guess I need another comparison here where a line like 'Culture sucks down words' (Manics :: Motorcycle Emptyness) really made me feel something the line 'damn the government, damn their killing, damn their lies' (Placebo :: Soulmates Never Die) didn't do anything for me. And yes, I view both lines as society critic, the first just deals with things in a more... well, let's call it cryptic way, and just for the record I really love(d) both bands.
Uhm yeah, what I'm trying to say is that this song reminds me in a way of the second example (= too direct in some lines maybe), plus I'm still not sure what to think of the God topic at all.

[x] Walking In Circles: Okay, I really like/love this one... also like mostly it's in a way harder to tell why I love a certain song than why I don't like it. I think the melody is really great and I really like the way how everything just fits perfectly.

[x] In The Darkness: Well, another slow one... hmm, before saying more I should perhaps add that those songs mostly need more time to grow on me, I mean when first hearing 'Leave Out All The Rest' I didn't like at all... but it seems to be quite nice, although I have to admit that this repeating (background?) of 'in the darkness' might get on my nerves sometime... sorry, I'm weird like that /:
But right... it seems nice and I like the way it slowly builds up and the melody is once more one of the better ones so like said... ask me again in some months XD^^

[x] Morning After: Well first off: unlike most I haven't heard this before, so it's as new for me as everything else (except 'Let Down') and... well, it seems to be nice as well. I instantly liked the melody. Nothing special though... guess it's another song where the future will tell what I think off it.

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So right, to put it all together I can truely say that Out Of Ashes is one of those records I wouldn't really be interested in, but then it's Chaz and I really adore that guys voice. (:
Not that you get me wrong, it's a nice record and surely has some highlights but as a whole... well, perhaps it's not my type of music any more, yes I'm one of those person's who likes it loud with sreaming and everything and if I need some slower, melodic stuff I already have some bands whose songs (no offence here) I like more. As said, some songs on this are really great and might be that I only need to listen to the rest more often to like it more, but I think I can already say this record will never be under my real favourite records.
But well, you also should know that I wasn't this happy about Minutes To Midnight after listening to it for the first time as well. Same goes by the way for my still number one all time favourite record (Manics: The Holy Bible)... so yeah, things might change a bit. *lol*
Guess out of 10 points I'd give this one a 7 right now with the tendency to getting an 8.
And right, just for the sake of it... 'The Rising Tied' was completely different, cause I liked it from the first time I listened to it, still like it a lot more and I'm not even a HipHop person, guess apart from some Eminem songs I don't like anything out of this genre at all, but yeah, maybe that's the reason why I could judge that one more openly, cuz I laked anything to compare it with, while OOA is undoubtly a 'rock record' (I don't like those genre talk at all, but right now I guess I see why it's needed) and I've been listening to that sort of music... well, my whole life so far, huh? And yes, maybe that let's me be a bit overcritical here.
Anyway, think that's all I can say about it now. And sorry if my english sucked, I really tried my best to explain what I mean, especially when a song didn't really catch me.
Thanks (:

tags: dead by sunrise, music, out of ashes, review

So right, as mentioned I've finally found the time to make some new userpics for this. It's now only the layout that will probably change soon.

As always all icons were done by myself, but this time I've used some online sites for free brushes/textures/fonts.
(btw. I still know that I probably have a lot to learn concerning these things, but it's fun)

( sites )

That's all.^^
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feeling: awake listening to: n/a tags: icons, userpics

Lol, okay mainly out of boredom I've finally decided to make a list of my movie collection so far. And since I've no other place where I could put it, it goes here. Of course I haven't listed all those stuff I've taped over the years from television... haha, that'd have really been too much.
[Last Update: 03/01/09]

( Video VHS (bought) )

( DVD's )

And last those

( things I'd really like to get sometime )

feeling: calm listening to: Negative :: Frozen To Loose It All tags: movie list

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feeling: thoughtful tags: gay rights